TODAY

WAIKIKI NEIGHBORHOOD BOARD MEETING, 7 p.m. at Waikíkí Community Center.

TOMORROW

VETERANS DAY CHARITY WALK and rally, 3:30 to 4:30 p.m. at state Capitol; wear yellow and bring signs in support of disabled veterans; members of the Walk Across O'ahu team will be on hand; donate also at Bank of Hawaii. Information: www.walkacrossoahu.com.

PÄLOLO NEIGHBORHOOD BOARD MEETING, 7 p.m. at Pälolo Elementary School cafeteria; verify meeting at 768-3710.

KAHALU'U NEIGHBORHOOD BOARD MEETING, 7 p.m. at the KEY Project.

KALIHI VALLEY NEIGHBORHOOD BOARD to recess during November.

THURSDAY

KEIKI TALK STORY — THE STORY OF QUILTS, hands-on family activity for children ages 4 to 6 conducted by retired children's librarian Kathy McGovern, 10 to 11 a.m. at Mission Houses Museum, Chamberlain House kitchen; free.

LUNCH AND LEARNING, featuring educator Seigfried Ramler, author of "Nuremberg and Beyond," 11 a.m. at Temple Emanu-El; Ramler was a witness to Kristallnacht, participated in Kindertransport and was a translator at the Nuremburg Tribunal; free; all are welcome. 595-7521 (Richard Field).

EXCHANGE CLUB OF DOWNTOWN HONOLULU luncheon, noon at O'ahu Country Club; speaker: Pearl Harbor survivor Harold O'Conner; lunch $20. Reservations: 524-0330, ext. 2, edracers@aol.com.

IS THIS NORMAL FORGETFULNESS or something more serious? Learn the signs of dementia for yourself or loved ones, 5 to 6:30 p.m. at The Queen's Medical Center, conference center auditorium; cognitive changes expert Teepa Snow to talk; free.

DIAMOND HEAD/KAPAHULU/ST. LOUIS HEIGHTS NEIGHBORHOOD BOARD MEETING, 7 p.m. at Ala Wai Clubhouse, second floor.

ÄLIAMANU/SALT LAKE/FOSTER VILLAGE NEIGHBORHOOD BOARD MEETING, 7 p.m. at Oahu Veterans Center.

'EWA NEIGHBORHOOD BOARD MEETING, 7 p.m. at 'Ewa Beach Public Library.

KO'OLAULOA NEIGHBORHOOD BOARD MEETING, 7 p.m. at Hau'ula Community Center.

FRIDAY

EATING DISORDERS discussion, brown-bag seminar presented by Mental Health America of Hawai'i, 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at Harris United Methodist church; experts to talk about assessment and treatment, the roles of dieting, nutrition, parents and more; donation of $10 to $25 requested. 521-1846, info@mentalhealth-hi.org.